The For U Tour was In Real Life's second and last headlining concert tour for their debut studio album, She Do, across the United States. The tour began in Cleveland, Ohio, on October 2, 2019, and concluded in Seattle, Washington, on October 29, 2019.
- August 24, 2019 - In Real Life announce their headline tour at Planet Hollywood Times Square.
- August 26, 2019 - The tour dates are posted, revealing 14 shows.
- September 6, 2019 - More VIPs were added for the Los Angeles show.
- September 7, 2019 - Los Angeles VIP sold out.
- September 8, 2019 - Oakland VIP sold out.
- September 23, 2019 - Elle Winter and Asher Angel are announced to be opening acts for certain dates on tour.
- September 24, 2019 - Jenna Raine announces of being a supporting act.
- In Real Life officially announce that they are performing solo songs.
This set list is representative of the show on October 2, 2019 in Cleveland, Ohio. It does not represent all the shows from the tour.
|Wed||02||7:00 P.M||Cleveland, Ohio||The Cambridge Room||United States|
|Thu||03||8:00 P.M||Denver, Chicago||Lost Lake Lounge|
|Sat||05||8:00 P.M||Los Angeles, California||The Roxy|
|Mon||07||7:00 P.M||New York, New York||Gramercy Theatre|
|Sun||13||5:30 P.M||Phoenix, Arizona||Valley Bar|
|Mon||14||7:00 P.M||Chicago, Illinois||Lincoln Hall|
|Wed||16||7:00 P.M||Boston, Massachusetts||Sonia|
|Fri||18||7:00 P.M||Orlando, Florida||The Social|
|Sun||20||7:00 P.M||Dallas, Texas||The Cambridge Room|
|Tue||22||8:00 P.M||Atlanta, Georgia||Aisle 5|
|Wed||23||7:00 P.M||Washington, DC||Union Stage|
|Fri||25||7:45 P.M||Cincinnati, Ohio||Top Cats|
|Sun||27||8:00 P.M||Oakland, California||The New Parish|
|Tue||29||8:00 P.M||Seattle, Washington||Columbia City Theater|
* Times are when the show starts, but there should be at least one hour earlier in attendance when the doors open.
★ Conor earlier revealed that they were each performing solo songs over his Instagram livestream in September.